Supporting Someone Affected by HIV

Commitment at a glance

Start with dignity

• Ask what kind of support is wanted instead of taking control.
• Keep HIV status and health information private.
• Use calm, non-stigmatizing language.
• Do not treat ordinary contact, shared meals or affection as a risk.

Practical help

• Offer transport, reminders or accompaniment only with permission.
• Help write questions for a healthcare visit.
• Support treatment routines without policing them.
• Learn about U=U, prevention and testing from authoritative sources.

If emotions are difficult

Fear, anger, grief or uncertainty can occur, but the person living with HIV should not have to manage everyone else's reaction. Confidential counseling or peer support may help. Avoid pressuring anyone to disclose before they are ready or required by applicable law.

Medical boundary

Do not recommend stopping or changing treatment based on online information. A possible recent exposure or urgent symptom needs qualified local assessment.

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